I am dating my husband
My mother always told me: if you’re fighting within the first 6 months of a relationship, end it! In the beginning of a relationship it should be all sunshine and rainbows, but if it’s already rainstorms and thunder — get out!You deserve the happy days before all the flaws start really coming out! In high school we were taught all the mind games — When you should call, how long you should wait to respond, who you should flirt with to make him jealous, what hot picture you should post to get his attention, which outfit will make him want you, what friend you should have secretly approach him… If either people in a relationship are still playing these games, then: A. Let me clarify this, I’m not talking about posting annoying statuses or mushy Instagram pictures 24/7. From the day you met him, you never had to think about marrying him, you just KNEW he was the one. When you first started dating you didn’t feel the need to kiss the whole time that you were together, because you were more interested in talking and getting to know one another.If you guys can both handle a disagreement without screaming in bitter voices, or using foul language – you’ve found a keeper!This past Sunday my lover and I went to a country pub and I glanced in the dining room and saw my husband with a beautiful older woman, but not just any woman.It was my mother and, from the way they looked at each other and were touching, I could tell instantly that it was more than a friendly lunch; they were quite obviously in love with each other.
Don’t let him get away, but first make sure he feels the same way. My mother is 54 years old and is breathtakingly beautiful and, unlike me, hasn’t let her body go.My husband, who is also handsome and fit, looked like he was happier than I had ever seen him.And let’s get real — a relationship only runs into more problems over time, not less. You’re still too immature for a committed relationship or B. And honestly, you don’t want either of those situations occurring in a relationship that’s about to be taken to the next level. That’s a bad indicator – you should be paying attention to him, not your phone.When you’re with the right person, things will be flowing so naturally, you’ll forget to play those games. But nonetheless, you should be excited about showing your significant other off! You’re able to discuss difficult subjects, for instance: faith similarities or differences, the amount of children you want and how you want to raise them, money matters concerning spending and saving; then there’s the fun subjects like your dreams, goals, and where you see yourself living one day.